Babies, bellies, mustaches and pies...

What could these four things possibly have in common? Leave it to the Monaghans to work that out! Adam and I were thrilled when our dear friends, Ryan and Pam, invited us up to their Nashville home to have a long awaited reunion with them, their baby girl, Wyndham, and two other college friends, Brendan and Lisamarie. A little backstory- all six of us graduated from Palm Beach Atlantic back in the day, and all six of us got engaged and married the same year. In fact, Ryan and Pam's anniversary is just one week before ours. Ryan, Pam, Brendan, and Lisa were all in mine and Adam's bridal party, circa June 2007.

~~~~~Newlyweds~~~~~~

Fast forward three years, and Ry and Pam are proud parents of this beautiful girl, and Lisa and I are both expecting. It was so much fun to compare baby bumps and get some great mommy advice from Pam. Ryan and Pam are amazing, laid-back parents a great example of how Adam and I hope to be with Annaleigh.

We're really looking forward to the spring when we can reconvene plus two extra additions, Annaleigh Jane, and Brendan and Lisa's little boy, Mason James, who is due just two and a half weeks after Annaleigh! Here Lisa and I are flaunting our baby bumps. Mason and Annaleigh already love each other.

Now what do pies and mustaches have to do with all of this? Well, it's a Monaghan tradition to host a pie baking contest in the fall. The women bake pies and the men judge. The men are given very special disguises (i.e. mustaches) so they can discreetly choose to vote as they please and not feel obligated to vote for their wife's pie. As you can see, our husbands all took the judging process very seriously.

Coming up next... the gorgeous Jamie McCluskey gets married and I am a prego bridesmaid for Halloween!

Baby Shower...

Back in October I was blessed to have some of my dearest friends throw me a baby shower. It felt more like a flood than a shower- there was so much love and so many lovely gifts for little Annaleigh, and she's not even here yet! Three of my friends (Emmy, Kiki, and Jamie) even came in from out of town to join the fun. Em brought her new hubby, Nick, so Adam would have a friend while we were occupied with girly shower activities. It was a fabulous weekend. (Photo: Jamie, Susanna, Kiki, Me, Melody, Emily)

Kristin (Aunt Kiki) is headed to India this spring, so she decorated a sweet onesie for Annaleigh to wear when we Skype to keep in touch. If you can't tell, it says "Someone in India Loves Me!"

On Sunday we all went out for a chilly ride on Susanna's family boat. Even my mom joined in the fun and we snuggled to keep warm. She's excited to be a grandma soon!

Adam, Nick, Kenny, Susanna, and Melody even braved the cold water for some wake boarding. I (wisely, I think) chose to refrain- that water was coooooold! Even so, it was great to get out with so many good friends and enjoy some gorgeous fall weather.

We also got to try Flip Burger on Saturday night, which I had been dying to check out. The chef is a former Top Chef contestant, and these burgers were AMAZING. Nothing like a burger and fries to make a prego happy, right? If you're ever in Atlanta I highly suggest you try. Doesn't everything sound delicious? http://www.flipburgerboutique.com It was!

Until next time...

Ooops...

So... I kind of forgot that I had a blog. Well, I knew I had it, but, per my last post, I'm a terrible procrastinator and just kept putting the updates off. Since the last post my life has settled into a general routine of work and school and work and school. Thrilling, I know. However, I was blessed last month to have many of my dearest friends come celebrate Annaleigh's impending arrival by throwing a baby shower for me. (Pictures to follows soon- promise). I'm in full nesting mode, unpacking all these tiny, frilly outfits into the nursery, washing crib sheets and blankets, and trying to teach the kitties not to sleep in the crib!

Meanwhile, final exams are looming just around the corner, and it's officially time for me to lock it down in the library for the next month and half- I'm sooooooo excited, can you tell? Thus, I will break up my long study days by blogging, so be looking forward to the upcoming posts:

1. My baby shower and reunion with college besties

2. McCluskey Brant wedding extravaganza

3. Trip to Nashville to meet baby Wyn and see the Downing baby bump

4. Pictures of Annaleigh's newly redecorated nursery

Lessons I Should Have Learned

1. Not to procrastinate. But, since I didn't learn this, I'll be spending the rest of my Friday and all day Saturday in the library writing the brief I've had since August 1 to write- go me. I'm awesome.

2. Pack a lunch- it will be far superior to anything purchased at school. And yet, again I'm eating soup bought from the café in the law school. Yummmmm.

3. Facebook and blogging are a huge time-suck. Well, I actually did learn that one, but I continue to do both anyways! (Hence, the procrastination problem).

So maybe this year I'll learn and next semester will start off in a less hectic manner. Oh wait, I'm having a baby at the beginning of next semester- never mind!

2L

Today was the first day of my second year of law school! It felt insanely good not to be a confused 1L, which was quite possibly worse than my first day of college. Today was a breeze- a little reading, and little research, one class and lots of reunions with friends I haven't seen all summer. This year is going to be slammed, no doubt, since I'm taking 15 credit hours, working at the firm, doing Moot Court, and co-chairing fundraising for the International Law Society. Not to mention getting ready to add a baby girl to the mix come January! The difference between this year and last year is that these are all things I chose for myself. Granted, some of the classes I'm taking because I have to (or feel that I should), but still, it's a vast improvement over hours spent slaving over a 2 credit hour legal writing assignment! I'm very excited about my Public International Law class and the Pursuit of Happiness lecture series I'm taking. I get to meet the Dali Llama in October- how cool is that? Not to mention my law school girlfriends have already been making noises about throwing me a baby shower. I really do have the sweetest group of girls in my class who have become so dear and been so supportive. It means a lot to have such accomplished and driven women support me as I attempt to balance career and family. Their well-wishes have been a bright spot among the many people who think what I'm doing is impossible and that, in fact, I'm going to end up dropping out of school because I can't hack it. The best advice I've gotten so far (from my childhood bestie's little sister who just became a momma herself): prove all the naysayers wrong!

I am very excited to become a mom and ecstatic that I'm having a daughter, but the joy I feel about my little girl has not eclipsed my desire to pursue a career in law. Maybe I'm selfish, but I want it all, and I believe there is room for it all in my life! This year is going to be a lot of work, but also a lot of fun and most definitely an adventure. I'm going to try to be diligent about blogging throughout so my far away friends can enjoy the ride with me. So until next time...

Sweet Summer Time...

This may sound crazy, but I'm kind of ready for the summer to be over. I miss my law school friends, and I kind of miss the structure of classes. Remind me I said that in November when I'm 7 months pregnant, knee deep in studying for finals and want to kill myself. But for now, I am feeling ready to get back to it.

Meanwhile, I am rapidly compiling a list of things I would like to get done before school starts, including cleaning out my closet. This is actually one of my favorite past-times, because I love creating room for new purchases! Still little to no sign of a baby bump, which keeps me craving regular clothes, but I feel hesitant to shop lest I never fit in the clothes again. Friends who have already had babies- how do I lose ALL the baby weight? I like my clothes and want to wear them post baby!

Now, before signing off, I have to write about my new fave thing- Goody Spin Pins! I love these things! I have A LOT of hair, and years of doing classical ballet has caused me to amassed a large quantity of hair pins, which I chase around the house after my kitties steal them. But the spin pins? Two of them and I can make the cutest, easiest up-dos. Friends with thick, long, or curly hair- you MUST purchase these. Best $6 I've spent in a long time!

Bun in the Oven

So here's Bunny, coming in January. I thought I'd go ahead and blog about our little one, since I know there are scores of questions I'm going to get (because I've been asked the same ones basically ever since we told the very first person). Bunny is not entirely a surprise- Adam and I have been talking about a baby for awhile now, and I've been feeling the "mommy" vibe for the last few months for sure! He/she/it is due to arrive on January 23, 2011. No, I'm not showing yet, in fact, I've been so sick that I've lost 8 lbs. since getting pregnant, so keep praying for me to get fat and happy sooner rather than later! Oh, and I'm NOT dropping out or taking time off from law school except to give birth and recover. I'll have more time with Bunny now than I ever would as a first year associate, so we're confident that we can make law school and parenthood mesh. And we're very excited!